Dominatrix mum dates 2 men in polyamorous relationship – and says marriage is 'outdated'
| Published date | 31 January 2021 |
Polyamory is the practice of having an intimate relationship with more than one person while all parties know and consent to non-monogamy.
Speaking to the Daily Star, Tash explained: “I think I have always known I was polyamorous, but I didn’t know it ‘was a thing’ until the decline of my relationship with my daughters father.
“A colleague at work mentioned it and I had only heard of polygamy – like most people assume when you say polyamory – and he explained what it was and I immediately said ‘this is exactly what I’ve always felt!’."
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She added: “I have always been very open sexually and never really struggled with jealousy so I had a good foundation.
“I would say I’ve been polyamorous for nearly four years.”
Polygamy, unlike polyamory, is the practice of marrying more than one person and is illegal in the UK.
Tash is currently in a triad with Kane, 33, a production company owner, and Dave, 30, a carpenter, but doesn’t intend on ever getting married.
The gorgeous blonde said: “I am not married, never been married and do not have intentions of getting married although if it was important to a partner I may consider it."
She continued: “I personally believe marriage is outdated.
“Marriage was never intended for love, it was to combine wealth, power, families, control gender, control society, plus the idea we ‘belong’ to someone I don’t agree with.
“As hard as it may be to accept we are all on our own, at the end of the day the one permanent in life is ourselves...
“We put too much onto one person these days -–our partner is expected to be our best friend, lover, co-parent, business partner, exercise buddy, travel companion etc things we used to get from a whole village of people.
“Its no wonder a lot of marriages end.”
For now, Kane, Cash and Dave all live separately, but enjoy their time together when they get to meet up.
Tash and Kane met on the dating app Bumble.
The dominatrix explained: “I found it difficult to meet people into my lifestyle.
“I was very up front about it and Kane immediately took to it, but in a deeper more genuine way."
She added: “Most guys when you tell them you are into open or poly or swinging have one of three reactions.
“One, they look at you as a sex toy. Two, they run away...
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