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I love pal's ex but he wants her back

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Vincent
Published date19 April 2024
Publication titleDaily Star (England)
He says I should do the decent thing and back off. Why should I when I love her

He is used to getting his own way but, for once in my life, I'm not prepared to roll over.

She and I have been dating for four months, but she was with him for four years before me. They split up when he went on a stag weekend and got off with a model.

He flew back and ordered my girl out of his flat. He told her that she'd been replaced and broke her heart. She came to me in tears, and I offered her my sofa to sleep on. One thing led to another and we became a couple.

Now I'm happier than I've ever been in my life. My girl is kind and fun and our sex life is red-hot. She says I'm the most considerate lover she's known.

Ironically, she's confessed that my mate (her ex) is completely useless in bed. He has no moves and no ideas. She had to keep stroking his ego and perform for him or he sulked.

Now he's on his own and struggling to cope. The model left him after a few weeks and a couple of subsequent girlfriends have skedaddled too. My girl says she's happy with me but I'm terrified he's going to go behind my back and grind her down.

Despite everything I know she feels beholden and sorry for him because his mum died in 2022 and he had a tough early life.

How do I ward him off while making her understand that I'm the man she needs?

I'm scared the sheer force of his personality is going to be too strong for me to fight.

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