Supporting a partner through cancer

Published date26 March 2024
Publication titleHuddersfield Daily Examiner
The announcement comes after weeks of public speculation about her health, following her January visit to hospital for abdominal surgery

In a video message she revealed she was in the early stages of preventative chemotherapy.

"This of course came as a huge shock, and William and I have been doing everything we can to process and manage this privately for the sake of our young family," Kate, 42, said.

"As you can imagine, this has taken time. It has taken me time to recover from major surgery in order to start my treatment. But, most importantly, it has taken us time to explain everything to George, Charlotte and Louis in a way that is appropriate for them, and to reassure them that I am going to be OK."

She added: "I am well and getting stronger every day by focusing on the things that will help me heal; in my mind, body and spirits.

"Having William by my side is a great source of comfort and reassurance too."

This is how charities recommend you can support a loved one with cancer.

William have been everything and manage privately sake of young The Princess

Provide support According to Macmillan Cancer Support, it's important to support your partner, while letting them take as much responsibility as they can for things like their care, the family unit and other decisions.

Keeping an open dialogue with your partner is key, talking about how you both feel, while also accepting help from family members and friends should you need it.

Embrace a changing role Every situation is different, but cancer can put pressure on a relationship, and change how your respective roles look - particularly when it comes to things like housework, finances and social activities. "This can lead to resentment, or you may feel guilty that you are not doing enough. These changes can be hard for you and your partner. It is important to talk to each other about how you feel and what matters to you," Macmillan says.

Keeping an open dialogue can help with this, and Macmillan also recommends...

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